It somehow makes us feel better about our own weeds.
I’ve been through some fairly crappy times.
And had A LOT of people tell me my garden was a mess. But the reality was, I knew their garden had weeds too.
Don’t use someone else as a distraction tool for not taking care of your own mess.
Focus on your fertilizer (shit).
Support others when they are in the middle of their shit.
After all, everyone appreciates help when weeding, but no one appreciates the person who stands by the fence pointing out the weeds.